You know my name

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I’ve written a couple of times about Megan’s ever improving speech and ever growing vocabulary, and how amazing it is to watch.

So it seems strange to now be writing about how the same thing has made me a little bit sad, but hopefully you’ll see why.

One of Heather’s first words was her own name. In fact, it might have even been her very first word. And it was one of Megan’s first words too, probably because she heard us shout it so much. Or maybe it was a defence mechanism – Heather has always been fond of her sister, often to the point of literally smothering her with love!

But try as we might, we could never get Megan to say her own name. For a long time, “Me” was what she insisted she was called, which is actually very hard to argue with.

That changed a few weeks ago, when she decided that her name was, in fact, Meggy. I say decided because I’m convinced that whole “Me” business was just to wind us up. Which sounds silly to say of a 2 year old, but she’s got previous, so I wouldn’t put it past her.

The Meggy phase was, as it turned out, to be very short-lived. As of last week she’s started referring to herself as Megan. And, while I’m obviously proud of her, and pleased that she’s continuing to learn and develop, I’m also a bit sad.

It’s another reminder of how quickly they change, and how fleeting these early years. And, of course, of how important it is to record those moments, so that in years to come things like the transition from Me to Meggy to Megan won’t be forgotten, which is exactly the reason I started blogging in the first place.

The potential for embarrassing the girls in their teenage years is just an added bonus! :)

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365 pictures: 101 – 110

You’d think that this far into the year, taking and posting a picture a day would have become second nature. Not so, in fact, there have been quite a few missed days of late. I’ve kept going though, thanks to some pics borrowed from Gem.

I blame the time we had off at the start of April. That and a brief spell of illness: both were breaks from routine which threatened to derail this project, but I think I’ve got things going again. Fingers crossed, anyway…

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101. Cake!
In our house, Gem is far and away the top dog in the kitchen. I’m not completely useless, and, dare I say it, there are even a couple of things I can do better than Gem, but when it comes to baking I’m a complete novice. It wouldn’t be right for Gem to bake her own birthday cake though, so with a little guidance I managed to produce this bad boy. And it tasted as good as it looks :)

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102. Feeding time
And here are the girls tucking into Mummy’s birthday cake! I think I might have been a little generous with the slices, because neither was able to finish. And believe me, these girls rarely leave cake behind.

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103. Lego
Aunty Ruth and Uncle Andrew came to visit, partly for Gem’s birthday and partly for a Scottish Cup semifinal. They brought the girls some Disney Princess Lego, which went down a storm as you can see here.

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104. Bag
Sometimes you just have to walk around with a bag on your head, right?

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105. Cheeeeese!
This is currently my favourite pic of the girls, and the wallpaper on my phone. Love it!

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106. Toast
I mentioned Gem’s baking skills earlier, and this photo is testament to that. What could be better than hot toast made from homemade 6 seed malted wheat bread? Amazing!

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107. Camel ride
This one is all Heather, from arranging the toys to pressing the shutter button to take the picture. What a fun picture.

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108. YouTube in bed
Heather loves few things more than YouTube, as demonstrated by this picture, where she’s watching Psy’s follow up to Gangnam Style.

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109. Funhouse
When CITV did their Old Skool weekend, we recorded a few things for nostalgic reasons. Little did we know that the girls would be such big fans of Funhouse – so big that they’re still asking for, and watching it several months later. Only problem is we only have one episode. If only they’d rerun a whole series…

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110. Phone collection
We had a massive spring clean recently and passed on some old mobile phones to the girls, to add to their existing collection of toy ones. Aside from not being pink, they fit right in!

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You can’t always get what you want

Daddy and Megan

Me and Megan. She looks thrilled to be in my company!

Ever since Heather was a baby, I’ve been her favourite. When she hurt herself, it was me she looked to first for comfort. And when it came to bedtime, she always preferred being tucked in and read a story by Daddy.

That’s still the case today, but I think it’s eased off and she’s more balanced in her affections. Which is a good thing, because I know it was something that always upset Gem a little.

And I know how she feels, because Megan is the complete opposite – she’s very much Mummy’s girl, and it’s my turn to play second fiddle.

This has proven a little problematic in the last couple of weeks, particularly when it comes to bedtime. Megan refuses to go to sleep unless Mummy is the last one to give her a “cuggle”, and often one isn’t enough. A few nights Gem’s had to go back up to her three or four times before she’d settle.

We do tell her this isn’t acceptable, of course, and that it has to stop, but we also know that she’s in pain from her last four teeth coming through, so it’s a bit of a balancing act between compassion and tough love.

Tuesday night was the worst. She wailed for a good hour, and it was only after a dose of Calpol that we couldn’t have given her any sooner that she finally settled. To her credit, Heather somehow managed to drop off in the next room, despite the racket her sister was making.

What’s interesting, though, is that she’s only like this when she knows (or thinks) Gem is in the house. If Megan thinks Mummy’s out, she’s quite content for Daddy (or my folks when the girls go for a sleepover) to put her to bed. And that was the case last night, which I was quite relieved about – after the trauma of Tuesday, I must admit I was approaching bedtime on Gem’s Slimming World night with some trepidation.

But it passed off without a hitch. There was a slight wobble, when Megan asked about Mummy, but I made her a deal – if she tried to go to sleep, Mummy would give her a kiss and a cuddle when she got in. And I’m relieved to say that did the trick – and Mummy upheld her end of the bargain too, although she waited until after we’d eaten before going up.

I remember Heather going through a similar phase at round about the same age. That resulted in her bedtime becoming a long drawn out affair, involving multiple stories and songs, and we’re keen to avoid getting drawn into that with Megan. Hopefully it’s just a phase, and it will pass once those troublesome molars are fully in.

Hopefully.

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You gotta roll with it

Megan’s got a new skill which, as you can see in the above video, she loves showing off: she can now do forward rolls.

Now, I don’t want to seem overproud, but I think this is quite the skill for someone who’s not long turned two – I’ve known 10 year olds who struggled to do this, although I appreciate that’s an exception rather than a rule.

But if she can do this now, what will she be able to do in a few years? Maybe we’ve got a future Olympic gymnast on our hands???

Of course there is the small matter of her “warm up” to take into account. No-one has any idea why she has to jump up and down on the spot, many many times, before she can do a roll. But do it she must – it’s like they’re both part of the same exercise.

I’m not sure they allow coffee tables to lean on in Olympic gymnastic halls, but we’ve got plenty of time to work on that. By my reckoning, Megan’s first Olympic appearance won’t be until 2028, and they’ve not even sorted out where it’s going to be held yet. Which, makes booking flights and hotels a bit problematic, but I’m sure we’ll manage.

I’m not getting ahead of myself, am I?

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365 pictures: 91 – 100

100 days? Really? Where is this year going? I’m not sure, but I do know it’s heading there at high speed. This installment features more holiday pictures and anotherĀ birthday – March and April seem to be made of them in our family. Which has its good and bad points, and cake definitely comes into both categories! Anyway, on with the pictures…

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91. Fireside
One of our favourite things about visiting Nana’s house (aka the country pile) is the open fire, and that includes the girls, who are very careful around it. Surprisingly careful, given their general “bull in a china shop” demeanour elsewhere.
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92. Rollercoaster
While visiting Nana, we met up with Amy, Jay and Joshua at Crazee Bongo’s softplay. The kids had a great time playing while the adults got to relax and catch up. I think the rollercoaster was Megan’s favourite, and after a few goes she didn’t even need me to push her off.

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93. Keeping warm
Because why wouldn’t you wear a hat with your slippers and dressing gown. Something about this picture strikes me as a preview of things to come in the teenage years…

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94. Breakfast
Both our kids are pretty good eaters, and a cooked breakfast is definitely a favourite, as this empty plate shows (crusts excepted).
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95. Captain of the ship
Back from Nana’s, we had a fantastic day out with Graham, Lynne, Maya and Anya at Camperdown Park in Dundee. The adventure playground seemed to stretch on forever and all the kids had a ball exploring it – myself and Graham included! We also loved the zoo, despite Megan tripping and landing on her face. A magic Malteser soon stopped the tears though.

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96. Chef’s perks
Heather loves an opportunity to cook in the kitchen with Mummy, and making Grandpa’s birthday cake was no exception. Especially when there are beaters and bowls to be licked afterwards!
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97. Chocolate cake
And here’s the finished product in all its glory. It tasted even better than it looked.

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98. Fixit sign
It might have been Grandpa’s birthday, but that didn’t mean Daddy didn’t get a present as well. This sign, from Ali and Iain, will be going up in the shed as soon as we get a dry weekend day with temperatures above zero. It could be a long wait…

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99. Beef Chimichurri
Our “make everything in Jamie’s 15 minute meals” challenge continues apace. I’ve no idea how many recipes we’ve cooked now, but we must be close to, if not over, the halfway mark. This one was really good, even the fresh peas in the salad which we were both pretty skeptical about. Not pictured: the chimichurri sauce itself.

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100. Self-portrait
Megan is definitely following in her sister’s footsteps of loving to play with any and every gadget she can. Only this morning she switched the TV on and was trying to get onto the Wii U. She took this picture on my phone, using the front facing camera, with only the slightest bit of help from me – not bad for a two year old.

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